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Faith and Families

What would a Christian do vs. What would an atheist do?

by James Ayello and Matt Evans

 

As an extension of the Family Values section, Project 573 asked two community leaders how they would act or what they would say in difficult situations. Their answers to a series of hypothetical questions will provide you with insight into the similarities and differences between two people with disparate religious backgrounds, experiences and beliefs.

Each participant was asked 20 questions (with follow-ups), the majority of which related to scenarios involving their families, specifically their children. Of their 20 answers, we selected their 10 most revealing for this segment.

Finally, it is important to note that opinions heard in these videos do not represent the beliefs of every member of their respective communities. Despite their elevated position amongst their peers, the opinions related in the following videos are theirs alone.

The Community Leaders

 

Death

Your child's grandparent dies. How do you explain death to him/her? What do you tell your child about the afterlife? Do you think your answer is a comfort to your child?

Abortion

A rape victim wants to have an abortion. Should she be allowed to? How does morality factor in here?

God in Pledge of Allegiance

What do you think of the word "god" being in the Pledge of Allegiance?

Divorce Your child's best friend's parents are getting divorced. Your child asks you about it. What do you tell him/her? What do you say if he/she asks you if you and mom will ever get divorced?

Pornography

How would you react if you found out your child was watching porn?

Religion in schools

Should religion be taught in public school? If so, how?

Father Stephen Jones – Catholic Priest

Father Stephen Jones is uniquely qualified to be a member of this story because of his family situation. Namely, he has one. Ordinarily, priests are not permitted to marry or have children, but due to a Pastoral Provision approved by Pope John Paul II in 1980, Jones was allowed to convert from Anglicanism to Catholicism and become a priest. He was ordained in 2010 and is now the Director of Youth Ministry for the Diocese of Jefferson City.


Jones, 40, and his wife Kerri, 35, have three children: two sons, Colman, 10, and Fisher, 3; and one daughter, Dwyn, 7. Jones said he believes that the rise of the Nones in America has been caused by an increase in people who feel they are not being spiritually fulfilled. He said he believes, however, that religious affiliation is “a pendulum” and will in time, swing back.



Greg Lammers – Founder of the Columbia Atheists 

Greg Lammers was born into a Christian household, but began questioning his faith in eighth grade when he couldn't rationalize why “a good and great God would allow such pain and suffering.” Even though it wasn’t until his early 20s that he started identifying as an atheist, when he looks back on his childhood, he said he was “hoodwinked and scammed, and vowed never to be scammed again.” 


Lammers, 40, and his Catholic wife, Katie, 35, have two children who they've agreed to raise without religion. Their oldest, Henry, is 6 years old and their daughter, August, is six months old. Lammers said he partially attributes the increase of Nones to Richard Dawkins and Christopher Hitchens. He said their anti-religion books helped people realize “faith isn't a justified position. You can't believe in spite of proof.”

Homosexuality

Your child tells you he or she is gay. What is your gut reaction? Would you support him/her?

​Below are ten topics we asked Jones and Lammers about.

Alternative Religion

Your child is interested in different religious beliefs than you. He/She wants to go to a different church to explore these interests. What is your reaction?

Death Penalty

Someone murders your child. He is caught and convicted of the crime. There is no doubt he is guilty. Should he be put to death? Explain your answer.

Evolution

Your child asks you about evolution? What do you tell him/her about it?

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